is out in the wild:
Oh gosh I deployed it, finally after four days of being in the weeds of a profound refactor.
This was hard. And took long hours of patience
Now building and devving with
which is way faster than Webpack
Vite doesn't accept CommonJS only ESM
NodeJS is founded in CommonJS, so doing Node-y things is hard like
stuff in the filesystem
Found some bugs on mobile, shared with Kyle, gonna fix and regroup
Elysa brought this up again today
She says I don't give her the space she needs around this
She is right, I crowd the zone with hell no
I get triggered when she is uncertain about this
Fear for my baby's well-being if his mother would harm him
Fear for my own safety if Elysa would harm her baby
Fear for Elysa that she would unwittingly harm herself in the name of dogma
And most of all, deep trauma from my own circumcision
I would not trim and slice my penis if given a choice
My baby has a choice through my volition
Hence I will not trim and slice his penis
It is pretty fucked up how deeply ingrained this systemic practice of violence against harmless, defenseless infants.
We both struggle with it.
Elysa doesn't like when I describe the actual act of circumcision: evidence that it is horrifying.
I don't like having undergone it without a vote, and I don't like the effect of it.
Commonplace of Kerrbear